Situation:
I did something that is not right and shouldnt have done. However, by doing that wrong thing, i got to know of something that is really shocking, revealing and matters a lot to me and is totally unacceptable by me or for that matter ANY girl.
What should I do?
Stay mum coz i did something wrong too and keep the anger and hurt within myself. I was let down.
OR
Confront what I got to know. But my means of knowing it were wrong. Two wrongs never make a right.
Arrrgggghhhh!! Its killing me :(
one way is that you can giv him/her a hint of all that you know, without revealing the whole thing. And wait for him/her reaction, may be the other person confess the whole thing in front of you after all that.
ReplyDeleteAnd after that you can easily take him/her one-on-one.
Just try to keep your self in a better & upper position......
Lets accept the fact to begin with - that you know something that is important to you (The means don't matter now).
ReplyDeleteNow you have a 2 step process -
1) Since the thing is not acceptable to you, decide how you want to go ahead.
2) Now that you know what you want you will be able to answer your question yourself.
Alternately you could speak to some of your close friends and seek their help.
See if you are ready to be friends with that person even after he/she makes a confession. if yes.. then ask him/her if theres something from his/her side to tell you..and tell that you need clarifications on your issue :)
ReplyDeleteif you are not going to be friends with that person again.. go and bash him/her.. you won't like to miss this one opportunity before moving ahead in life without that person..
take care..
1 - Does it matter to you ?
ReplyDelete2 - Does the person matters to you ?
3 - If it does, everyone has a cupboard full of skeletons.
4 - Talk or write or rant more.
5 - Sleep over it.
6 - Bad habit nosing around ;-)
Its not about the thing that you got to know... neither it is about ppl or situation who let you down.
ReplyDeleteIT actually is about YOU. Realise it.
your two case "..." OR "..." are both right and both wrong at the same time and you know it.
So be true to yourself and choose the alternative with which you can live. trust me its possible that some years down the line none of it may matter. The only thing that will remain is probably your decision and just like the butterfly effect it may actually define the future as it defines your character.
P.S Personally speaking I would have confronted the truth.