Falling is love is easy. Staying in love is harder. Finding someone who will love you back is hardest. And believe me …nobody gets it right the first time. Our society places far too much importance on the concept of happily ever after and the institution of marriage. It is better to be happy alone than feel like a complete wreck with someone. Chances are that you will end up being the last of your many friends to find someone. Chances are that they will counsel you on how you should find someone to marry. Chances are that you will cause your family and parents much grief by being a 30 year old single woman. Chances are that you will spend many evenings with nothing to do because all your friends are busy with their own lives. Take your chances. You will know when you are ready. And remember that just because you are ready to settle down – does not mean that you are ready to settle…Do it your way!
Absolutely true and very well said
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