Cant sleep tonight. Somedays they say - are just made for thinking. Welcome to today.I dont know whether it comes from being a Cancer - but dark skies make me wonder.I think like most water signs - that is from the heart.
Life can be pretty darn tough sometimes. Some say its simpler than simple. Everyday I walk into the unknown - with some set notions about what I know - rather what I think I know. Everyday doesnt get over. But I still question one thing. Everyday!!
How does one know?? How does one know that 'he' is the 'ONE'? what if you don't end up marrying the 'ONE', instead you end up marrying the other one. Then is the other one the 'ONE'?
Someday somebody's gonna ask you
A question that you should say yes to
once in your life
- Rhett Miller
And I need to know if he's the "ONE" to say yes. I wish it was as simple as making up an equation with all variables and ending up with x = HIM. How do you know when you have found the right person with whom to share the rest of your life? Will some bells ring? or some kind of akaashvani?
Probably there is a way. And thats tough to follow. One needs to be honest about the feelings, it is impossible to just “know” whether someone may be the right one for you. One needs to trust the gut feeling and intuition. Our intuition only strengthens and develops and echoes time and again when we make decisions and become more sensitive to our feelings. Sometimes, it takes the right timing to just know.
I read somewhere, Once in your life, if you are lucky you will meet a person who will divide life between the time before and after!
who, what, when, where, how....are questions time will answer. Till then im hoping he's just round the corner and i'l KNOW that its him and i can shout out to him, Hey You, Its YOU!!!
And hopefully its love and laughter happily ever after :)
Why are you stuck with the whole concept of 'ONE'? You meet someone, spend some time with him, start liking him, and feel you can spend the rest of your life with him. You talk to him about it and he agrees. Your parents agree and you marry. No one's perfect and so is no relationship. You can go by your instinct and then once you decide you can try to make him the ONE if the ONE really matters to you. If you fail in the end then start over again. Constant thinking about the same thing doesn't help; and neither does it provide a solution. Like I say always "Give your best shot and be happy that you did so"
ReplyDeleteEasier said than done, my friend.
ReplyDeleteIt is as easy as you want to make it. Its like the more salt you put in the more salty it gets; the more you think the more it becomes hazy.
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